Virginia Woolf


Virginia Woolf- original full name, Adeline Virginia Stephen, born in London on January 25th, 1882. She is a journalist and English writer. Her two most well-known novels, To the Lighthouse (1927) and Mrs. Dalloway (1925) are recognized for politics of power, women’s right, and illustrating literary and artistic theories. In her personal life, she suffered from depression and later committed suicide at age 59, in 1941.

The Life Of Virginia Woolf

Virginia Woolf was born into an impressive household with successful parents. Her father was a historian and author, and her mother was born in India, who model for painters and was also a nurse and later publish a book on her profession. Both of her parents were married before.  There were a total of eight children living under one roof including her half and full siblings. The girls were home-schooled, while two of her older brothers were educated at Cambridge. Virginia Woolf spent her childhood summers in a beach town, “St. Ives”, located in southwestern England. The beautiful scenes inspired her to write her first novel, “The Lighthouse (1927).

Growing up as a young girl, Virginia was very cheerful and happy. She started a family newspaper, “The Hyde Park Gate News” to document humorous family stories and activities. However, her life soon starts to darken, and trauma began to develop when she was sexually abused by her half-brothers, in which she wrote about in “A Sketch of the Past” and 22 Hyde Park.  And the sudden death of her mother and half-sister Sella. This event led to her first mental breakdown.

On August 10th, 1912, she married Leonard Woolf, and they stayed together until her death.

Life Lessons From Virginia Woolf


There is light after darkness.

It does not matter how bitter and flawed life may seem, it is always wonderful in its own way.  In her novel, Mrs. Dalloway,  even with death, there is still comforting memories. In Orlando, nature and poetry was an escape, and  To the Lighthouse, there is hope for restoration after a war.

Even the most insignificant moment has a purpose.

In the novel, Mrs. Dalloway, a simple dinner preparation turns into an observation of regret, death, and possibilities. With active thinking and actions, every step of the day allows us to develop a new character.

Virginia Woolf suffered from personal losses, depression and mood swings. She had multiple mental breakdowns. Despite these issues, there were barely any breaks in her productivity and writings. She didn’t let her life interfere with work. Sometimes, we will be faced with a personal crisis that may distract us,  but it is important to seek recovery and get back to work. Woolf attended mental institutions on three occasions and set boundaries. Don’t allow personal setbacks to get in the way of achieving a goal or milestone.

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A Beautiful Marriage is Possible.

Virginia Woolf met her husband in 1912, and they shared an amazing connection and bond, until her affair with another woman. She describes this experience as ‘rather a bore for Leonard, but not enough to worry him.’ She wrote in her suicide letter, “ ‘You have given me the greatest possible happiness, I owe all the happiness of my life to you.’ (view marriage quotes)